As
mentioned, I was in my own business. I
would keep track of my time on the calendar, to charge different clients. The month of January was nearly filled with
“O’s”, representing Overhead, time lost just day-dreaming of the church, and
not being able to work.
About
mid-month I received a newsletter from Akron, advising of the arrival of the
first of the families moving there, looking for houses. I thought, am I really going to just sit here
and miss it all? Finally, the Lord
provided a business trip for me to go to Ft. Wayne, with a stop in Cleveland.
I recalled
that one of the brothers with Witness Lee visiting us the prior month was Titus
Chu from Cleveland. So when the plane
stopped in Cleveland, I called him, and he said “Oh praise the Lord, brother,
we’ll be right down and pick you up!” I
said “No, no, I’m just on the way to Ft. Wayne, but on the way back I’ll
stop.” And that is what I did.
Brother
Titus prevailed upon me to stay for three days.
We went to a Lord’s Day meeting in Mansfield, Ohio, and then accompanied
saints as they considered a building suitable for meeting, and searched for
houses. The search for houses continued
during a rainy Monday in Akron. As we
were driving around the streets with closely-spaced houses I asked Titus “Where
do the children play?” The answer was
“In the street.” This was rather the low
point in my entire visit, and a blow to my soul life which we term “the old man”.
When it
came time to go home, Titus asked me what I was going to do regarding
Akron. I asked him what I should
do. He said “I don’t know what you
should do. The Lord knows what you
should do. You know what you should
do.” And immediately I was clear. I should move to Akron. At that time the way we were meeting in East
Hartland, Connecticut was considered by brother Lee and Titus as the church in
East Hartland. For me to leave there
without the approval of the leading one(s) was considered comparable to a
sister who left her husband to move to a locality where there was a church.
I flew
home and walked into a meeting in progress at our house and said that our
family was moving to Akron. Marjorie
immediately started crying, and our pastor bounced right up and said “Now just
a minute, you have a responsibility here!”
Later Marjorie said that her tears were tears of joy, because she had
felt that I had not been following that close with the Lord and this was an
answer to her prayer.
The
situation ultimately resolved itself. I
remember visiting Akron again, driving the New York Throughway, singing to
myself the hymn “We have a Most Glorious King”.
At one point in a visit to Akron I applied for and got an Ohio driver’s
license. To do that I had to turn in my
Connecticut driver’s license. To me this
was a reality check, and it really hit home.
In the spring I moved into the Brother’s House in Akron. Marjorie stayed behind until the end of June
because our second daughter, Yvonne, was graduating from high school then. I rented a building for the business in Akron. I had several employees, but none wanted to
move to Ohio. Since I had several
projects going, I had to do some hiring in Akron.
After I
had rented the building for business but before I had moved in, the church in
Akron was having a mini-conference, and I volunteered my business facilities
for it, and we rented chairs. The phone
was already hooked up, and in the midst of a very moving hymn somehow Bill
Barker and I were on the phone. I know
it had an effect on him, because the next day, totally unplanned, he hopped a
plane and was there with the church.
I hired
some saints to continue my several projects, and I was also helped by other
saints, in particular, Jim Young and Bill Barker. So my business continued in Akron instead of
East Hartland. I sorely missed my
family. I can’t tell you how many times
I flew back to Connecticut during those months.
I told
everyone I was moving to Akron to “die”, meaning that I was dying to self, for
the Lord’s interest on earth. The
situation in Connecticut that I was leaving, was for the “natural man” nearly
ideal. Consider that all the meetings
were in our home (in a 24’ x 32’ attached heated and well lit garage). My business was also in our home. The location was out in the country on a
hilltop in northwest Connecticut with clean air. On any cloudless night you could always see
the milky way. One spring, just outside
my office window there was a large apple tree in full bloom, early. Then there was a drop in temperature, and
that tree stayed in full bloom for a whole month. Of course I hated to leave all this. Our family physician said sarcastically, “I
presume you are moving to Akron for the air pollution”. (In those days, pollution was bad. Earlier that year the Cuyahoga river in
Cleveland caught fire). One night in
Akron at the Brother’s House the smell of rubber from the tire plants was so
bad it woke me up, and I was wondering how much worse it would get before an
evacuation was called.
But the
joy of meeting with all the saints far outweighed all these distractions. Though all our children had come to the Lord,
one by one, still they were restless and ready to go off in different
directions. When the family moved in
June 1970 our oldest son, Gifford Jr., had already left home, gotten married,
and had a son of his own, Gifford Neill III.
So we had to leave them behind.
Our oldest daughter Patricia was away at college at John Brown
University in Arkansas. Our youngest son
John was six months old. The hardest
part of the move was to pick him up off the clean grass at our home in
Connecticut and bring him to Akron.
The
church life was pure joy. Except for the
one left behind, all our children were initially captured by it. Even Patricia, when she came home from
Arkansas, came home now to Akron. She
held out against the church life for exactly one week. The most enjoyable times were when we gave
hospitality to saints coming to Akron for conferences. Other times of great enjoyment of fellowship
included the Moving Service, where some of us brothers helped families move their
belongings off moving vans into houses they had just bought. We were forever having saints over for the
evening meal, and all our friends were in the church.